In my 20 years plus of being involved in ministry, I’ve had my share of dealing with territorial people. I myself can be one. There are some characteristics I’ve found that describe a territorial person.?Characteristics of a territorial person (wearing masks of Godliness) :
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•possessive (mask of shepherding)
- •controlling (mask of leadership)
- •involves inner circle people to protect their leadership (mask of loyalty)
- •surrounds themselves with people they can manipulate (mask of trust)
- •gossips about other people, leaders (mask of love)
- •makes “lone ranger” decisions (mask of teamwork)
- •involved in many church activities, lacking submission (mask of godliness)
How do I help people overcome being territorial?
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•Ask them to give leadership away and delegate decisions.
- •Be committed to shepherding them through change.
- •Help them to identify that they are territorial.
- •Hold them personally accountable for offenses they cause.
- •Ask other people to hold them accountable.
- •Commit to uphold their good/Godly decisions and leadership.
- •Show support and unconditional love for them.
- •Communicate your desire for them to succeed.
- •Rotate responsibilities; rotate people and positions. Provide cross training among the team.
- •Be an example in lifestyle, speech, love, faith, trust, discipline and coaching.
1 Timothy 4:12 Be an example to all believers in what you teach, in the way you live, in your love, your faith, and your purity.